A Message from Our School Counselor


Welcome Back To School, SGR!

Meet your school counselor, Ms. Shari. 

Hello and welcome back to school, SGR!  My name is Shari Gustafson and I am your SGR school counselor. This is my 31st year working as a school counselor.  Before I began school counseling, I was a third grade teacher for three years.

I have a son who is living in Montana and a daughter who is living in Colorado, both WONDERFUL places for Mom to visit! I also have two dogs who are now my replacement children. 🥰

There are school counselors working in every Moorhead school.  We are part of the regular education program. Every elementary student who is in a regular education classroom will be meeting with their school counselor in their classroom. 

WHAT does an elementary school counselor do in school?

  • At the elementary level, school counselors teach SEL lessons in classrooms along with most K-4 classroom teachers.

  • School counselors meet with students individually on a short term basis.  Sometimes life changes and it helps to talk with a trusted adult to relieve some of the pressure, help organize or rethink thoughts and make a plan to feel better in the future.   

  • School counselors also meet with small groups of students who need support as they are going through a similar situation.  Some examples of small groups are:

    • Family Change-dealing with change in family structure

    • Remembering-dealing with the death of an important person 

    • Finding Friends-practicing social skills

    • Stress Relief-practicing calming techniques

    • Positive Image-practicing positive self talk

WHO can refer a student to talk with me?

  • Students can ask their teacher to talk with me. Then, the teachers and I decide on a good time for a visit and the student comes to my room to meet individually. 

  • Concerned teachers will ask me to check in with a student on occasion. 

  • Concerned parents can call or email me to check in with their child.

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**Communication Home:  *If I have a question/concern about something a student says or does, I will always make a contact home. Otherwise, if a student and I talk about something relatively “normal” once and it is resolved at school, I won’t be calling home.

*Typically teachers talk with parents about participation in small groups. If students are referred for small groups, I will send a note home with students to let parents know when we’ll meet during the day (usually lunch/snack time).